few weeks ago we heard activated a hotline so that citizens of the youth office somewhat suspicious of child neglect or crying or think that they will have to report on this hotline and draw attention to those families. The reason is concern about the increasing neglect of children in homes where starving and also cases of abuse occurred.
I think there is agreement that there should be intervention in cases of life-threatening neglect sooner rather than later but at the same time I had a fear that the child's withdrawal opens the door. Everyone thinks of what can be heard now and call the families and especially single mothers there have nothing to laugh about. In two weeks we registered about 570 calls in two weeks and there were 117 children taken from their families or removed. 117 children are only 3 classes and in two weeks. If it's counted against the year could well be 2 schools, and in 10 years, oh well. I was not there and I assume in most cases the homes were the cause, an issue which has a very good site lässt.Trotzdem solve what is going on here? On the one hand, there are always cases in which intervention is necessary, on the other hand, one can do not tell me that we in Germany with such a large number of disabled parents have to do? Three classrooms full of orphaned children? All parents really so catastrophic failures that had to have their children placed in state custody? And again it is sorely needed to analyze each case to document the career meticulously the parents have their say, listen to them, seeing them as equal partners.
Cluttered homes, dilapidated housing, the base not be alone.
It was also one case in which a mother and her infant durchgenässt screaming in bed is totally leave. But she was present. It has the baby directly to the well- Bed and taken away. is now for action is all right but it would not have been better to ask the mother to her child to support themselves and to help it carry out these tasks themselves until they developed a sense of what is best for their child? It would have been a family can still perhaps save.
used to be the parent responsible for family and children, have worked out on the field, eating cooked and household care. Grandpa and Grandma lived in the household and to supplement the care of children. Today the image of women has changed completely. There are usually no more grandpa and grandma, house and home also no longer, so no network of support and offers sedentary. Man lives alone in an apartment, you are alone responsible for everything, if left to rent or house or job, everything is an individual or a few, the society has become more demanding. Not only maximum performance on the job but also in motherhood is expected to meet and who can not easily gives up and does nothing further, the overview is lost completely gone. The removal of children should only be in exceptional cases and are not seen as a panacea, because as a result remain broken families, traumatized children back and what does the future with a society full of traumatized people? It urgently needs other concepts and the mothers need another Picture of themselves, they must learn to set priorities, they must know that their children demand the highest performance and when neighbors at the Youth Office on they complain then they will ring at this storm and issue their entire laundry so that they, the neighbors that the laundry , can wash. They are determined to do it gladly.
Otherwise, should mothers be more active form their own networks to form their own activities, course design, events, pass on form in parenting, self-giving counseling, excursions, with doctors and lawyers and feminists and sociologists (interior) and .. and .. unite. A new
Selbstbewusstein for Mothers and children and Verantwortungssein, maybe that's the new way.
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